LGBTQ Muslims Defeat Stigma

From the Colgate Maroon-News

By: Carter Cooper

Posted: 10/1/09

On Thursday, September 24, Faisal Alam, a self-identified queer Muslim, gave a lecture titled "Hidden Voices: the Lives of LGBT Muslims" to a group of about 40 students and faculty gathered in Love Auditorium. Alam, the founder of Al-Fatiha, an organization that connects LGBTQ (Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Queer and Questioning) Muslims with each other, spoke about his life experiences and his mission to support and empower queer Muslims. The lecture was sponsored by The Office of LGBTQ Initiatives.

Although Alam joked with the crowd before beginning his lecture and kept a casual tone throughout, he made sure to address the very serious issue of prejudice against both his religion and his sexual orientation.

"The reason we wanted Faisal to come and speak was to have access to a voice in the LGBTQ community that isn't represented on our campus, and one which hasn't been addressed on our campus in the past," LGBTQ Initiatives member junior Eugene Riordan said.

LGBTQ Muslims are not only under-represented on the Colgate campus, but also in the media and popular culture. When he first started to network with other LGBTQ Muslims, Alam set up an online discussion board focused specifically on being an LGBTQ Muslim in America.

"Although 50 people had joined the discussion group," Alam said, "not one person wrote a message because that is how much fear there is in our community."

According to Alam, LGBTQ Muslims face a very serious and unique problem.

"How do you tell your grandmother who doesn't speak any English that you are queer when every word [for homosexuality] in your native language is a derogatory term?" Alam said.

Alam calls his solution "progressive theology." Alam discussed his hopes to create a new language and new terms to describe his sexuality, while keeping a strong network of LGBTQ Muslims connected with "safe mosques" and tolerant imam by way of Al-Fatiha, an organization which Alam created.

Al-Fatiha literally means "The Beginning" or "The Opening" and is also the title of the first chapter of the Qur'an. Alam got the idea for his organization in 1998 after having a nervous breakdown during college, which left him hospitalized for months. During his recovery Alam vowed that he would never let anyone else go through the pain that he had to endure.

Al-Fatiha is now an international organization that is not only a network for LGBTQ Muslims, but also a vehicle by which a discussion of issues related to religion and sexual orientation can be initiated.

Riordan hopes to continue the discussion at Colgate beyond Alam's lecture.

"[The Office of LGBTQ Initiatives] would like to eventually work with all of the religious communities to do some kind of event to bring all of the issues to light and work on them and celebrate as a unified Colgate community," Riordan said.

Although support from non-Muslims and allies is important, Alam stressed that Colgate students approach their support of LGBTQ Muslims carefully due to cultural differences.

"Sometimes I feel like who am I to do something about this unfamiliar issue?" first-year Emily Blease said.

"It's okay to speak up," Alam said in response, "but do it from a place of understanding, not like, 'I'm from the majority race, let me show you how it's done.' "

The first step in starting a discussion, Alam stressed, is to understand the facts. Accordingly, Alam began his presentation by describing Islam as a diverse and dynamic faith comprised of over 1.5 billion followers, only 15% of whom live in the Middle East.

Alam also demonstrably eroded the stigma that Muslim countries are not as progressive as those in the West with regard to LGBTQ issues. For example, in the 1970s, Ayatollah Khomeini issued a Fatwa in support of gender change. Most recently, the Indian Supreme Court has ruled in favor of getting rid of abolishing all sodomy laws.

"Ten years ago I didn't think LGBTQ Muslims would have a place in the Muslim world, but we are really not that far behind anymore," Alam said.

Invisible Life: Speaker Discusses the Hidden Lives of LGBT Muslims

From the University of Toledo's student newspaper h
By Vincent D. Scebbi

Published: Thursday, October 22, 2009

Homosexual, bisexual, lesbian and transgender Muslims choose to live their lives invisible from the world according to the founder of Al-Fatiha, an LGBT Muslim support group.

Faisal Alam, founder of Al-Fatiha, gave a presentation about LGBT Muslims and shared his perspective on homosexuality in the Islamic religion with UT students yesterday in the Student Union Building Ingman Room.

According to Alam, most of the Muslim community calls homosexuality an act punishable by death.

“LGBT Muslims are afraid of being disowned from their families and mosques,” he said.

Spectrum President Bradley McDermitt, a senior double majoring in biology and women’s and gender studies, said the Office of LGBT Initiatives brought Alam to UT because they wanted someone who could relate to the LGBT population as well as the Muslim community.

In a video shown in Alam’s presentation, a leader of the Muslim faith said the Koran specifies homosexuals should be executed by means of stoning.

Alam said he believes that the Koran does not forbid the love between two men.

Some students disagree with Alam’s interpretation.

Usman Awsari, a third-year law student who practices the Islamic faith and is of Pakistani decent, believes people should not have to reinterpret something to support their lifestyle.

“A person’s actions are between you and God,” Awsari said.

Mohamed Abushaban, a senior majoring in public health, said he was able to see both sides of the argument, but he believes there is a difference between a person’s thoughts and actions.

“Actions are based on what is accepted and your thoughts are based on your perception,” he said.

Abushaban said thinking of homosexual acts is OK, but acting upon them is straying from the religious path.

“Why would God give me feelings [if] I’m not allowed to act upon them,” Alam said while defending his beliefs.

Alam said the Islamic faith should be able to find a compromise for homosexuality.

When Alam got to college he said he “exploded out of the closet” and was involved in the club scene, which eventually led him to live his homosexual life separate from his life in the Muslim community.

After a nervous breakdown, Alam said he decided to bring his two lives together but felt he was the only gay Muslim in the world.

Alam eventually started his own e-mail discussion board called “Gay-Muslims.” Alam said within minutes of his initial e-mail to almost a thousand Muslims from several countries there were members joining his group.

“Nobody sent an e-mail at first because they were afraid the e-mail would be traced back to them and they would be prosecuted for their homosexuality,” he said.

In October,1998, Alam organized a retreat for LGBT Muslims called Al-Fatiha. The first retreat hosted 40 people from six different countries, he said.

Alam quoted Indian pacifist Mahatma Gandhi by saying people should “be the change [they] want to see in the world.”

According to Alam, the quote means one must first envision the change, become the change and then finally one must live the change.

Alam said he hopes there will be more dialogue between those who are against LGBT rights and those who advocate for LGBT rights in the next five to 10 years, as well as an international movement of overturning the sodomy laws in Islamic countries, with help from the United Nations.